Posted on by Alex Kudrytsky

Drastic times call for drastic measures, and in Today’s busy world of XXI century, people sacrifice their Me Time for something “more useful” or “more important”. 
 
The truth is, YOU are the most important thing that you have.
 
Today, we are sharing with you the secret of success - and it is loving yourself. Most of the people we admire, confess: spending time alone and finding spiritual balance and harmony is the key for achieving anything you put your mind to. But before you do so, let us help you to get your mind, spirit, and body in the right place.
 
So here is the list 10 Things That People Who Love Themselves Do, that you
should incorporate in your new and better life:
 

1. Meditate

One of the most essential and helpful steps. When thinking of meditation, most of us usually envision doing yoga, reading mantras for long hours, or a quietly sitting on top of the mountain - which seems a little frightening.
 
Don’t be scared! Meditation very is different for every person. Meditation, in essence, is a process that one follows in order to achieve spiritual harmony and balance. And what makes you comfortable and happy the most depends only on you: reading a book in a park, exercising at the gym, cooking a meal, having warm bath with essential oils, or watching the ocean - it is all meditation.
 
Try meditating, and will see how much positive impact it will bring to your everyday life.

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2. Learn

People who love themselves are constantly progressing. It is highly important to change, evolve and learn, even if it’s little things. By learning, we develop both intellectually and spiritually. Not only we gain skills and become a more interesting person, but we remind ourselves about the importance of making mistakes and learning from them, we learn that to achieve a goal, one should be constantly working on it, we progress, change and become better, we learn to love ourselves.
 
And it doesn’t have to be big things either - learn how to make your favorite dish you always order at your favorite place; teach yourself a couple of useful phrases like “hello”, “thank you”, and “how could I get to...” in different languages, or learn more about your favorite writer, artist, or musician.
Most important, enjoy every moment of the process - that way, you certainly will achieve your goal!
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3. Experience New Things

Loving yourself is not the same as never leaving your comfort zone; experiencing new things, however, is. Sometimes we doubt our decisions to much - as a result, the choice is never made, and the subject is politely forgotten. New things - is one of the subjects that make everyone one of us quite worried sometimes.
 
Going to New Orleans with your friend: Is it worth it? What if I won’t like it? What if I’ll like it too much? What I will never want to travel again? Is the food good? What if I will want to move there? Is a weekend enough to experience everything? - too many questions and no answers to one of them. There is only one solution: try it!
 
Go to New Orleans, try out a new lipstick color, try writing a book, learn how to play your favorite song on piano, meet new people, go new places - don’t be afraid!
 
Experience is always helpful - whether it was good or bad at first. Along the process, you gain a lot of knowledge, memories and a better understanding of yourself. And through the understanding of yourself comes balance - please remember.
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4. Laugh at Your Mistakes

Salient thing to understand: you cannot win all the time - sometimes you have to lose. And what more important - be able to laugh at your mistakes. After the lesson is learned, there is nothing you can do about the situation - just laugh at silly mistakes you’ve made, and move on.
 
No one is perfect - and is why we all are so beautiful: imperfections that we have make us human, and if you love you for what you are, everyone else will.
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5. Share Your Love with Others

Loving yourself does not mean being selfish - it means sharing your love with others.
 
The Golden Mirror Rule - Treat people around you the way you wish to be treated. Loving others is a very powerful thing: you share your emotions with others and bring positivity it lives of important people in your life - doesn’t is bring joy?
 
Finding balance between loving yourself and sharing your love with others can be challenging sometimes, so the best thing to do is using the same mirror rule: reflect on the people around you.
 
Always be respectful and polite, but if someone treats you the way you wish not to be treated - don’t waste your time: part of loving yourself is knowing valuing your emotions: do not let negativity bring you down, consecutively, do not act negatively towards people who bring good to you.
 
Always look for the balance.

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6. Be Bold

Knowing who you are and channeling your inner self is very important. Do not be afraid to express yourself, and be the person you truly are. Always be mindful about what is around you, but never let anything make you “hide” your real self.
 
Be someone and do something that you enjoy, and not what other people seem to like. You are who you are and it is great to embrace it - you are amazing in your very own way!
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7. Find Solutions

Find solutions! Do not run away from your problems, eventually, they will become one big problem and consume you. To avoid that, always look for solutions - most of the times, problems are smaller than they initially appear to be. At first, it may be hard to find the most rational solution; take your time, and don’t rush - as long as you are taking care of your problem, nothing bad will happen.
 
Don’t be afraid to ask for advice or help from people that you love - they are always there for you.
 
Seek for solutions and you will always find them, no worries!
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8. Create

Occasionally, people focus on themself way more than necessary, they seem to just consume all the time: others’ energy, emotions, time, and everything imaginable. This is why create - is our next advice! Not only will you let your creative juices flow by generating something new (you can also try this way of meditation:), but you will also get to understand yourself more.
 
We are what we create; it is good for us to analyze what have we done and how it reflects on our inner state: art, is one of the greatest ways to do it! You can literally visualize your mental and spiritual worlds just with a paper and a pencil, or make be a brush and some watercolors or even pastels - you do you!
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9. Inspire and Be Inspired

We all know, sometimes we are not in the right place just because we do not feel inspired. But if someone inspires us, shouldn’t we also inspire?
 
Inspiring exists in various forms, it is not just in art: you can encourage your friend to finally start learning French, you can show your someone a new thing you are working on: like an article, or maybe a piece of clothing you are asking for your design class, you can ask someone a very hard or confusing answer, and by that inspire them to learn more about the topic, you just compliment someone - and inspire them for a good day.
 
Another key thing to remember - do not lose your own inspiration: seek for it everywhere. Get inspired by the smell of roses on the street, by the blue color of the sky, by your friend’s checker scarf, by music playing in the radio. Look for things and you will find them.
 
Everything you see is pure inspiration - you just have to look at it from a certain angle.
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10. Love Yourself

And finally, the most important thing of them all: just love yourself, it’s that easy.
You are your very own person - and it’s amazing. Be yourself, and do everything that makes you happy, greet the positivity and respectfulness towards yourself and others, and you definitely will achieve success.
 
Love yourself - because everyone else already loves you!
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What methods did you try, and what works for you?
Let us know using #CoutureSpy on
Drastic times call for drastic measures, and in Today’s busy world of XXI century, people sacrifice their Me Time for something “more useful” or “more important”. 
 
The truth is, YOU are the most important thing that you have.
 
Today, we are sharing with you the secret of success - and it is loving yourself. Most of the people we admire, confess: spending time alone and finding spiritual balance and harmony is the key for achieving anything you put your mind to. But before you do so, let us help you to get your mind, spirit, and body in the right place.
 
So here is the list 10 Things That People Who Love Themselves Do, that you
should incorporate in your new and better life:
 

1. Meditate

One of the most essential and helpful steps. When thinking of meditation, most of us usually envision doing yoga, reading mantras for long hours, or a quietly sitting on top of the mountain - which seems a little frightening.
 
Don’t be scared! Meditation very is different for every person. Meditation, in essence, is a process that one follows in order to achieve spiritual harmony and balance. And what makes you comfortable and happy the most depends only on you: reading a book in a park, exercising at the gym, cooking a meal, having warm bath with essential oils, or watching the ocean - it is all meditation.
 
Try meditating, and will see how much positive impact it will bring to your everyday life.

10 Things That People Who Love Themselves Do 01

2. Learn

People who love themselves are constantly progressing. It is highly important to change, evolve and learn, even if it’s little things. By learning, we develop both intellectually and spiritually. Not only we gain skills and become a more interesting person, but we remind ourselves about the importance of making mistakes and learning from them, we learn that to achieve a goal, one should be constantly working on it, we progress, change and become better, we learn to love ourselves.
 
And it doesn’t have to be big things either - learn how to make your favorite dish you always order at your favorite place; teach yourself a couple of useful phrases like “hello”, “thank you”, and “how could I get to...” in different languages, or learn more about your favorite writer, artist, or musician.
Most important, enjoy every moment of the process - that way, you certainly will achieve your goal!
10 Things That People Who Love Themselves Do 02

3. Experience New Things

Loving yourself is not the same as never leaving your comfort zone; experiencing new things, however, is. Sometimes we doubt our decisions to much - as a result, the choice is never made, and the subject is politely forgotten. New things - is one of the subjects that make everyone one of us quite worried sometimes.
 
Going to New Orleans with your friend: Is it worth it? What if I won’t like it? What if I’ll like it too much? What I will never want to travel again? Is the food good? What if I will want to move there? Is a weekend enough to experience everything? - too many questions and no answers to one of them. There is only one solution: try it!
 
Go to New Orleans, try out a new lipstick color, try writing a book, learn how to play your favorite song on piano, meet new people, go new places - don’t be afraid!
 
Experience is always helpful - whether it was good or bad at first. Along the process, you gain a lot of knowledge, memories and a better understanding of yourself. And through the understanding of yourself comes balance - please remember.
10 Things That People Who Love Themselves Do 03

4. Laugh at Your Mistakes

Salient thing to understand: you cannot win all the time - sometimes you have to lose. And what more important - be able to laugh at your mistakes. After the lesson is learned, there is nothing you can do about the situation - just laugh at silly mistakes you’ve made, and move on.
 
No one is perfect - and is why we all are so beautiful: imperfections that we have make us human, and if you love you for what you are, everyone else will.
10 Things That People Who Love Themselves Do 04

5. Share Your Love with Others

Loving yourself does not mean being selfish - it means sharing your love with others.
 
The Golden Mirror Rule - Treat people around you the way you wish to be treated. Loving others is a very powerful thing: you share your emotions with others and bring positivity it lives of important people in your life - doesn’t is bring joy?
 
Finding balance between loving yourself and sharing your love with others can be challenging sometimes, so the best thing to do is using the same mirror rule: reflect on the people around you.
 
Always be respectful and polite, but if someone treats you the way you wish not to be treated - don’t waste your time: part of loving yourself is knowing valuing your emotions: do not let negativity bring you down, consecutively, do not act negatively towards people who bring good to you.
 
Always look for the balance.

10 Things That People Who Love Themselves Do 05

6. Be Bold

Knowing who you are and channeling your inner self is very important. Do not be afraid to express yourself, and be the person you truly are. Always be mindful about what is around you, but never let anything make you “hide” your real self.
 
Be someone and do something that you enjoy, and not what other people seem to like. You are who you are and it is great to embrace it - you are amazing in your very own way!
10 Things That People Who Love Themselves Do 06
 

7. Find Solutions

Find solutions! Do not run away from your problems, eventually, they will become one big problem and consume you. To avoid that, always look for solutions - most of the times, problems are smaller than they initially appear to be. At first, it may be hard to find the most rational solution; take your time, and don’t rush - as long as you are taking care of your problem, nothing bad will happen.
 
Don’t be afraid to ask for advice or help from people that you love - they are always there for you.
 
Seek for solutions and you will always find them, no worries!
10 Things That People Who Love Themselves Do 07

8. Create

Occasionally, people focus on themself way more than necessary, they seem to just consume all the time: others’ energy, emotions, time, and everything imaginable. This is why create - is our next advice! Not only will you let your creative juices flow by generating something new (you can also try this way of meditation:), but you will also get to understand yourself more.
 
We are what we create; it is good for us to analyze what have we done and how it reflects on our inner state: art, is one of the greatest ways to do it! You can literally visualize your mental and spiritual worlds just with a paper and a pencil, or make be a brush and some watercolors or even pastels - you do you!
10 Things That People Who Love Themselves Do 08


9. Inspire and Be Inspired

We all know, sometimes we are not in the right place just because we do not feel inspired. But if someone inspires us, shouldn’t we also inspire?
 
Inspiring exists in various forms, it is not just in art: you can encourage your friend to finally start learning French, you can show your someone a new thing you are working on: like an article, or maybe a piece of clothing you are asking for your design class, you can ask someone a very hard or confusing answer, and by that inspire them to learn more about the topic, you just compliment someone - and inspire them for a good day.
 
Another key thing to remember - do not lose your own inspiration: seek for it everywhere. Get inspired by the smell of roses on the street, by the blue color of the sky, by your friend’s checker scarf, by music playing in the radio. Look for things and you will find them.
 
Everything you see is pure inspiration - you just have to look at it from a certain angle.
10 Things That People Who Love Themselves Do 09

10. Love Yourself

And finally, the most important thing of them all: just love yourself, it’s that easy.
You are your very own person - and it’s amazing. Be yourself, and do everything that makes you happy, greet the positivity and respectfulness towards yourself and others, and you definitely will achieve success.
 
Love yourself - because everyone else already loves you!
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What methods did you try, and what works for you?
Let us know using #CoutureSpy on